Finally back! My VPS's main drive got toasted. I got a freshly installed VPS now, got yarn set up and working now, now I have to fix the rest of the stuff.
I've been using apache for many many years, but I had so many issues getting it set up today, so I switched to nginx, and that took me like 2 minutes.. So yeah - I'll use nginx from now on.

@stigatle have you tried Caddy? Easier to configure than any other web server, Letsencrypt out of the box. It is awesome!

@bender Never heard of that before. Ill check it out :)

@movq Glad you did not do that :) But took some time to get everything back up. But seems to run very well now.